Chantelle Austin – Benefits of Swinging
Rach, AKA Chantelle Austin, has been a relationship coach and mentor since 2006 for people who are new, curious or stuck in an open style relationship (swinging through to poly), and a Life Coach from 2003. She is the Author of The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples , a Speaker and Relationship Trainer.
Check out her fantastic article on the top 10 benefits of swinging!
1) Fantasies becoming reality! How many people get to the end of their lives or even just get married and say “I wish I’d done when I was single”. Well as a swinger you get to say “I did everything I ever wanted to try” and can sit in your rocking chair at the end of your life knowing there wasn’t anything you didn’t try or do repeatedly! Whatever you have on your fantasy…bucket list is on the menu to try at some point and while some of you are worried that the reality might not stack up to the awesomeness in the fantasy, I can tell you that you’d be right sometimes BUT in my experience, you often have to do it a couple of times for it to get better and surpass the fantasy level. It’s like the first time you have sex with anyone new, it often takes a few sessions before you really get familiar with the other person to heighten every aspect of the experience so give your fantasy a chance!!
