About the Author – Chantelle Austin
Chantelle Austin is the pseudonym for relationship designer and lifestyle expert Rach. She is often seen in the media speaking openly about her swinging relationship and she wrote The Essential Guide for Adventurous Couples. You can read more of her articles on Adult Match Maker.

Well, it was me who was the first to suggest the idea, which shouldn’t be a surprise! I’ll share how I started it but I’ll also give you a few other suggestions because the way I did it isn’t necessarily the most practical nor easiest method to use.

Basically I gave him a threesome with another girl first (and what man is going to say no to that?) so my theory was that he “owed” me one. Can we see the logic? We did that early on in the relationship and it was a few years before we decided to see if we could find a second guy to play with. First time around we found this to be quite challenging and I had performance anxiety (that’s a whole other article) so it didn’t happen then.

Good Weekend Magazine delves into the swingers lifestyle, following it’s participants social lives, and culminating in a trip to a couples club. Welcome to the world of swingers. It’s a world where the old rules and conventions of marriage and monogamy have been turfed out the Window.

Ever wondered what goes on at a couples club? In this great article from Cosmopolitan Magazine, Tara O’Sullivan describes her foray into swinging when she accompanies her best mates to Sydney sex on premises venue, The Couples Club.

Tara Tries Swinging
Article from Cosmopolitan Magazine:

A fantastic insight into a couples’ struggles with a withering marriage and their radical solution which ultimately brought them closer than they had been in their entire marriage. Lollie Barr explores how one couple experimented with an open relationship – a common scenario that many people in the lifestyle have had play out in their own lives. Well worth a read –  Marie Claire – Confessions of an Open Marriage.

A great read about jealousy in a swinging relationship and how you can tackle the issue before it turns into a green eyed monster!